So you  Are a New Grindr User and decided to give online dating a try and actually met someone that you clicked with.

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Now you have a date planned and are experiencing some first date jitters. Nerves are normal but online dating  like Grindr or tinder  does not differ much from traditional dates. You meet up, talk, enjoy each other’s company and determine if there is chemistry. Although true, there are a few helpful tips that will get you through your first online date and make sure that it goes smoothly.

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One of the most important considerations is safety. When meeting someone from an online dating site  like Grindr always take your own ride to and from the date. Since you do not know your date well enough the last thing you want to do is ride in a car with a person that is essentially a stranger. It is not the safest move. Also, if the date does not go well you can make a clean escape.

 

In addition to taking your own car to and from the date, if the usual dinner and a movie date is planned switch things up and go to the movie then dinner. First dates can be a bit awkward and it can be difficult to get the conversation going at times. Seeing the movie prior to sitting down to dinner provides a topic of conversation to help avoid those dreaded silences.

 

Another way to ensure that you get through your first online date on Grindr is to wear a comfortable outfit. Not only should you feel attractive but you have to be comfortable. Nothing can put a damper on a date more than painful shoes, a tie that is too tight or any other fashion dilemma. You need to focus on your date rather than having to adjust your clothes every few minutes.

 

Lastly, stay positive on your Grinder first online date as well as any future dates. Even if you do not feel that instant chemistry give it a chance.  You connected with this person and have a few things in common so have a good time on the date. A positive attitude goes a long way and may even result in a relationship. 

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Tinder London Online dating is now 20 years old. The babies first created by it are now adults.

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Soon those babies will even be old enough to buy themselves a beer. Here we’re going to talk about how online dating has changed over the years. Without a doubt it has changed over the years.

The very first online dating sites were actually classified ads sites. Much like Craigslist. You could sell your car and pick up a boyfriend or girlfriend. Most of the times it was free to place an ad. There may have been a charge for additional bells and whistles if you wanted them. Such as adding extra pictures or having your classified ad featured. During this time Excite! classified ads were really popular.

In the beginning of online dating there were sites like Match.com popping up. Sites such as Match are still around. These sites coexisted with classified ad sites. Consumers like the ease of use that dating sites offered. It wasn’t cluttered with advertisements that they didn’t want to see. No longer did a visitor have to deal with advertisements for people selling their second hand items. Also, dating sites began to use algorithms to help customers select potential matches. This is when online dating began to make a change.

Before online dating was like window shopping. You looked at pictures and read profiles. There was no scientific way for you to chose the right person. It was just a matter of liking what you read and saw. Then sites like Match began to understand the power of computing. It could help you chose the right person based on answers that you gave to questions. They could match you up with others that had similar interests.

It was more than Match making the shift to more scientific measures to help people find love. Other companies began to fall in line. One company in particular was OkCupid. They offered users something that most free sites didn’t. They took the algorithm to a whole new level. All while being free. Technology like this hadn’t ever existed in the online world of free dating. Even some paid services at the time didn’t offer such technology. It should noted that even today there are sites that don’t offer the dating technology like OkCupid has developed. They’ve consistently been ahead of their time. All while remaining free. They do offer some paid services. But, finding love has been, and always will be, free at OkCupid.

What does the future hold for online dating?

That question is up in the air. No one really knows. It’s probably going to be involving smartphones. Maybe something like Tinder. There could be a few existing sites that try to develop something similar to Tinder. An app that can be used with their existing site. The one thing we know is that online dating isn’t going anywhere. It’s here to stay. We also know that the future is going to be real exciting. Finding love will forever be just a click away. The days of having to sit in smoke filled bars to find love are a thing of the past.